The Truth Is in the Stories: Dispelling Myths About Hospice Care – Part 1

Myth: Hospice is only for the final days or weeks of life.

Truth: Hospice is for anyone with a life-limiting illness who seeks comfort and quality of life in their final chapter.

Elizabeth, the oldest daughter in charge of her mother Alice’s healthcare, saw her mom's health decline and knew something needed to change. Looking back, bringing in hospice gave her whole family peace of mind.

Elizabeth’s mother, Alice, filled every room with warmth. A mother of three, a beloved volunteer at the local animal shelter, and amazing cook, Alice was always testing new recipes and loved to host dinner for family and friends.

But Elizabeth had been living with progressive heart disease, and over time the signs were becoming clear—her breathing was labored, simple tasks left her tired, and she was experiencing discomfort and pain.

Elizabeth and her siblings thought hospice was for the final days—something they’d consider when the time came. But when, exactly, was the right time?

Why Hospice Shouldn’t Be a Last-Minute Decision

Many families believe hospice is only for the final days or weeks of life, but patients benefit most when hospice isn’t a last-minute call. Pain and symptom management can provide comfort quickly, and the integrated team offers the support needed to navigate this uncertain time. Patients can receive hospice services for as long as they need.

Caring for the Caregivers: The Power of Respite Care

Hospice doesn’t just support patients; it provides relief for caregivers, too.

One overlooked benefit of hospice is Respite care, a service included under hospice care that allows families to rest, travel, or spend time with other loved ones while their family member continues receiving professional care. Before hospice, Elizabeth felt overwhelmed, juggling her own responsibilities while caring for her mother. But when Alice started hospice, Elizabeth was no longer alone in managing her care. Hospice is not just for patients—it’s for families, too.

Looking Back: What Elizabeth Wishes She Knew Sooner

Now, after Alice’s passing, Elizabeth reflects on the choice she made. At first, she believed starting hospice meant admitting defeat or giving up on her mom. In hindsight, she realizes that hospice gave the two of them the gift of time that is to be cherished.

Enrolling in hospice sooner allowed Alice to continue living on her own terms. Instead of spending her final months in and out of hospitals, she:

  • Remained comfortable at home with a personalized care plan
  • Received expert pain management and symptom relief
  • Had access to emotional and spiritual support for both her and her family
  • “Hosted” one last small dinner party for her family, something she never thought possible, but was a last wish enabled by Hospice

Elizabeth’s advice to other families facing a similar choice? Don’t wait. Don’t assume it’s too soon. Hospice isn’t about the end—it’s about making every moment count. And since Hospice is typically fully covered under insurance or Medicare, there’s no reason to hesitate about learning more and being prepared sooner than later.

Learn More About Hospice Care To learn more about how BAYADA Hospice can support you or your loved ones, contact us for more information about our services.

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About the Author

Founded in 1975 by Founder and Chairman Mark Baiada, BAYADA has become a trusted leader in providing a full range of clinical care and support services at home for children and adults of all ages. BAYADA remains true to Mark’s commitment to purpose by finding, training, and supporting employees who take pride and find joy in healing and helping.

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